How much love do we need, just to survive in a marriage? That question came across
my mind when I watched the news about Gugun Gondrong's divorce.
He was just recovering
from a fatal sickness, I supposed it's similar with brain cancer, and now he has to go to court.
Actually, I was pretty shocked with this news. Because I know that his wife, was always there by his sidewhen he's still struggling to get cured in Singapore. And I appreciate his wife about that,
because she's still there during the 'hard times' (financially, physically, and of course mentally). Somehow, I can feel how much she loves him. And then suddenly, this shit happens. She claimed that she can't stand the pressure anymore, especially because Gugun's high-tempered attitude post-operation. Oh well, what can I say.. She must have gone through a very-very-very hard time, back at that moment. Seeing them in the court through my TV, I can only wonder why this thing should happen.
Ok, so now let's think about it. She loves him, he loves her. She's still in love with him, and so he is. But they decided to divorce, even though they still love each other. Even in the court, you can see how much she cares about him, and how much she really wanted to be with him. But yeah, they show (divorce) still goes on. Again, back to the question, how much love do we really need or maybe just 'love' won't be enough.
Personally, I'll go with the 2nd option. Just L.O.V.E alone won't be enough. As you know each other more, your love may get reduced or even GONE! That's why people says, marriage is not an easy thing-everything can happen and everything will be revealed. I will say that "love supported with tolerance and a great full heart" will be the answer. And unfortunately, they are not easy, mate! As you spend more time with your lover, you will find a lot of things in a good and bad aspect. Again, love is not enough to accept 'the bads'.
That's all for today (for the firs post)! Hope I can continue to post more things in this blog!!! -Maya☺
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